Swinging & Open Relationship Commonly used terms

[discoverlifekk]

Hi we were once very new to swinging in singapore and we got very confused.
Thankfully we met a few good couples who explained many terms to us. A lot of new terms such as cuckquean, cuckold, SRS, parallel play, soft swap, hard or full swap are new to us, and a few ladies explained to me.
Special Thanks to hotwife goddess who helped us.
We had to go reddit to search a lot of these terms to join communities and find out more about our kinks and preferences.

Here are the lists that I hope can help newbies to spice up their sex life for their marriage or relationship

1) SRS - same room sex 

2) Soft Swap - exchange of partners for caressing, sexual activities except penetration 

3) Full Swap - full exchange of partners for sexual penetration 

4) Parallel Play - 2 couples playing in same room 

5) Separate Play - 2 couples, exchanged partners and go into different rooms. 

6) MFM - threesome with 2 men, 1 lady 

MMF - same threesome, except the men do play with men too. 

FMF - threesome with 2 lady, 1 man 

FFM - same threesome, except the ladies play with ladies too. 

7) HotWife - couples where the wife is the focus, the hubby loves to share her out. (hotwifing) In some hotwife couples, the man may join in with MFM 

8) Stag and Vixen - hotwife where the hubby sits and watches. 

9) Cuckold - where the hubby enjoys humiliation (kink) 

10) Cuckquean (popularly misspelt as cuckqueen) - the woman enjoys seeing her man with other girls. 

11) BSDM- a broad acronym for bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, and sadism and masochism, describing consensual sexual or non-sexual activities involving power exchange, restraint, or pain for mutual pleasure and exploration 

12) Dom - The dominant in a consensual bdsm relationship 

Sub - the submissive partner

Special mention to Undertable or USC. If you hear seniors who say USC or UT or Undertable, they are referring to an old forum where many of us were once very active and built a strong community.
Unfortunately, the website went down and community is lost now.
My hope is that we have this strong community here once again

Pls feel free to add terms that I may have missed.

[Randy]

I thought stag and vixen means both like to play?

[Samiunaiza]

Nice to recall all lol

[discoverlifekk]

think we need a section on all the kink terms and words!

[Suncouple4ever]

Thanks @discoverlifekk for this super helpful list. Always good to have a 'refresher'/reminder time and again. :) Reminds me of exam cheat sheets! *lol* 

Being a cuckold hubs, the only thing I can share is that the humiliation part varies from person to person. I'm not into or fond of it (I already get enough humiliation/scolding every day by Mrs for not lifting up the toilet seat), but I do know of folks who really enjoy the process and play. 

For me, it's just the joy and excitement of letting Mrs be in the arms of another, without being present throughout the play. The thrill comes when I come to 'reclaim' her when everything is over. ;) 

XOXO,

Mr Suncouple (&Mrs Suncouple) 

[AdiZam]

From time to time it nice to have a reminder.